I like to describe coaching as what I never knew I needed. Tough love delivered by a skilled professional that kept me on track through my divorce and beyond. A more targeted, direct and challenging approach than therapy, but vitally as important. When I discovered divorce coaching amazing things started to happen while in the midst of my own divorce. Instead of banging my head against a wall asking “How did I get here?” I began asking myself, “Where am I going?” Instead of the relentless rumination of “How could this happen to me?” I began considering “How can this happen for me?” And, gradually, noticeable shifts started to happen. My circumstances became more tolerable. I got less scared about money, more career oriented, and more confident in my role as a single parent. The challenging circumstances around my divorce began to shrink, while the possibility of the life of my dreams became magnified. In a nutshell? Not only did I get from A to B, the definition of coaching, but my plan B started looking better than the life I had left behind.

I didn’t stop there. Since my divorce took so much from me, I decided it was time to take matters into my own hands and take advantage of it. One certification after another, and a second masters degree underway, I have found peace by pouring hundreds of hours into helping others just a few chapters behind me. I have noticed common themes amongst my clients: sleepless nights worrying about “ruining the kids,” fear of financial destitution, rumination over past regrets or mistakes, and paralysis when facing an uncertain future. Woven within all of these struggles is the unique opportunity for sustainable personal and professional growth that is most successfully achieved through coaching. If I do my job well, the tools I teach you can be applied to life going forward. If these tools can support a client during what is infamously known as the most stressful life circumstance, second only to death of a loved one, then my clients are more than equipped for what the future holds.